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A woman has ignited online discussion after explaining why she refrains from forming friendships with men, asserting that many eventually show romantic or sexual motives.
In a widely shared video, she describes how her own experiences have led her to believe that most men do not pursue platonic friendships with women without expecting something more.
She notes that it often takes just a couple of weeks for a man’s true intentions to become evident.
Quoting her, she says, “Let me explain why I avoid male friendships. Give a man two weeks, and you’ll see his real aim—usually to pursue a sexual relationship.”
She adds that even if some men take longer to reveal their motives, the result tends to be the same.
She further clarifies, “If the guy is somewhat guarded, you might wait about a month before his intentions surface.”
When asked about her limited male friendships, she says she maintains contact with only two men she has known since school.
“As I’ve experienced, I don’t have male friends. The only males I consider friends are those two long‑term acquaintances we’ve stayed in touch with over the years,” she states.
She emphasizes that these relationships are not deeply intimate; they are grounded in mutual respect and a shared history.
“They may be former classmates; we aren’t close pals, but we interact amicably,” she explains.
Ultimately, she concludes that she no longer believes men approach friendships with women with purely platonic intentions.
“I don’t make friends with men. Their motives are never genuine, and they never will be,” she declares.
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