The senior leader of Omega Fire Ministries, Apostle Johnson Suleman, has ignited online discussion by offering relationship guidance to men and women preparing for dinner outings.
Understanding the Purpose of a Dinner Date
In a widely circulated sermon video, the cleric explained that dinner dates serve as a chance to get to know each other, not to alleviate hunger, and encouraged women to refrain from bringing takeaway meals to avoid embarrassment.
Guidance for Women: Financial Readiness
He advised ladies to have a meal at home beforehand and carry sufficient funds to cover their own orders should the gentleman decline to pay.
Counsel for Men: Choosing Affordable Venues
He additionally warned gentlemen not to take ladies to venues beyond their financial means, noting that complaining about costs after extending an invitation is humiliating.
He added, “Eat well at home, keep money in your purse to pay for what you can afford if he doesn’t cover the bill. Gentlemen, avoid taking a date to a place you cannot afford; otherwise you may act irrationally, even shouting when told water costs ₦2,000.”
Public Response and Commentary
His remarks sparked a range of reactions online; many praised his tips on financial readiness and dating manners, while others contended that partners should merely discuss their expectations prior to meeting.
One commentator remarked, “This ranks among the finest dating counsel I’ve encountered recently.” Another observed, “Certain women will continue to bring takeaway regardless of the advice.”
View the video below for the full sermon.
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