A matchmaker has ignited online discussion after publicly questioning a 42‑year‑old woman whose marriage prospects collapsed following her family’s presentation of what he called an extravagant bride‑price list.
He explained that he had invested considerable effort to introduce her to a sincere suitor who was genuinely interested in marriage.
However, the situation shifted dramatically once the bride‑price negotiations began.
“You’re 42 years old, and I managed to get you a man. He asked for bride price, and your parents are presenting almost ₦12 million plus as the bride‑price list. Forty‑two years old, no children, never married, and you expect such a sum as bride price.”
The matchmaker said the steep bride‑price demand came as a surprise and likely discouraged the prospective groom from pursuing the relationship further.
He added that the woman later told him the man had ceased all communication, ignoring her calls and even blocking her after the marriage talks.
“Now you’re telling me you’ve been calling him, he’s not answering and has blocked you. I know what I went through to connect you with that man. Forty‑two years old, oo. Now it’s clear that your village people are the ones doing you,” he remarked.
The story has drawn mixed reactions online; some blame the bride‑price amount, while others defend the family’s right to set their terms.
One commentator wrote, “₦12 million for bride price is excessive – no wonder the man walked away.” Another countered, “Families have the right to establish their requirements. If he truly wanted her, he would have negotiated.”
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