Nollywood star and director Yul Edochie has sparked online discussion after expressing his opinions on love affairs and breakups.
On his social media page, he urged guys not to let a breakup crush them emotionally, encouraging them to concentrate on personal growth instead.
Actor Calls for Men to Focus on Self-Improvement
Edochie noted that shedding tears over a lady makes a man appear feeble and unaccomplished. He advised men to leave the past behind and invest their efforts in self‑betterment and achievement.
“Na mumu dey cry for woman. Abomination! Go and follow me on X, where I teach men how to be real men,” he wrote.
He also declared that a genuine man does not weep over a woman, and he encouraged men to wish their ex‑partners well when a romance ends.
He further pointed out that striving to become one’s finest self will naturally draw more women, warning that clinging to an ex can make a guy look like a failure in female eyes.
Reactions to the Post Are Varied
The message rapidly attracted online attention, prompting a range of viewpoints from social media commentators.
Sylvanus commented: “Before she decides to leave, only God can bring her back. Once she’s gone, don’t waste effort trying to win her back—just get on with your life. Yul is spot on.”
Kamara remarked: “You ought to be ashamed; didn’t you beg Queen May on your knees? The problem is you’re chasing social‑media validation.”
Asanwa noted: “He was weeping for the children you keep under your care, so what would make him cry for Judy, who has no grace?”
Amiegbe said: “Countless lovely women will be drawn to you, yet you took another man’s wife and even slept with her while still married to her former husband—what a disgrace.”
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