Introduction
Nigerian preacher Chris Ogugua has urged both men and women to achieve financial and purposeful readiness before stepping into marriage.
Why Financial Preparedness Matters
During a recent sermon, Ogugua pointed out that today’s economic climate makes it unrealistic for a single individual to bear the full weight of raising a family.
Advice for Women
He cautioned women who are not contributing anything to a partnership to reconsider their readiness for marriage.
Assessing a Partner’s Vision
Ogugua encouraged women to carefully examine a prospective husband’s goals, purpose, and financial stability, asking about his plans to secure a stable future for any children.
Impact on Children
He warned that many children miss out on education and are forced into street trading or other labor because their parents lack sufficient resources.
Parental Responsibility
Ogugua stressed that parents should strive to create better opportunities for their children, noting that the support and sacrifices made by parents often leave a lasting imprint on a child’s future.
Powerful Quote
“Any lady that is not bringing anything to the table today is not fit for marriage. Write it down o. The responsibility to raise a family right now cannot be carried by one man. Then if you see a young man without a vision, without a mission, without cash, don’t attach yourself to his life o. What he is carrying is far more than c@nc£r. Ask him, you want to marry me what is your mission? What do you have so my children won’t suff£r in your hands. Don’t you feel the pa!n when you walk the streets and you see children of men and women begging and carrying things on their heads. Children are f0rc£**d to feed their parents at their age, denying them the opportunity to go to school. Check your life, you are who you are today because of what your parents offered you. Your parents offered you nothing so you want to offer your children nothing?”
Social Media Reaction
“A woman who isn’t contributing anything has no place in marriage. Today, building a family is not a burden one man can carry alone. If a man proposes, it’s important to understand his vision and plans otherwise, the relationship could lead to hardship.”
— Pastor Ogugua Chris pic.twitter.com/iXjZ2rIVn9
— TopBoy 🇬🇧🇳🇬 (@samoblah) July 4, 2026
About the Author
