A Nigerian woman recently shared her profound distress. She ended a decade-long relationship. This decision profoundly affected her mental well-being.
She detailed her emotional journey in a TikTok video. The clip was posted to her account, @mamayochicher.
Account of the Situation
The widely-shared TikTok video revealed deep struggles. The woman admitted considering self-harm. Her son’s presence stopped her from acting.
She expressed profound uncertainty. Her words conveyed immense depression. She felt isolated and without support. Her relationship spanned a decade.
The video did not name her former partner. She confirmed seeking professional therapy.
The video’s comment section quickly filled. Many TikTok users shared diverse opinions and support.
Community Response
User @NOYA27 commented on not “putting all eggs in one basket.”
@God’s sunshine highlighted female independence. They stated, “A woman who pays her own bills and feeds herself is never afraid to be alone.”
Another user, @yinka mary, spoke of finding peace. She mentioned leaving a relationship three weeks ago. She now sleeps in her shop.
@Bigmama questioned the relationship’s status. They asked if it was marriage or dating.
@Hannah bella humorously remarked on relationships. She suggested they are for “people with juju” (magic).
The full video is available below: