Popular Nigerian fashion designer Veekee James has openly discussed the boundaries within her marriage. She recently shared her views on acceptable friendships for her husband, Femi Atere. Veekee believes she should be the closest woman to him. For this reason, she stated that her husband cannot have a female best friend.
James clarified that this particular rule works for their household. It helps the couple maintain peace and understanding. She firmly declared, “Femi Atere can never have a female best friend. If he were to have one, I would personally occupy that space with all of myself.”
Veekee James Addresses Past Relationship Drama
Veekee also reflected on past online controversies. She recalled facing harsh comments claiming she “stole” Femi from another person. This intense online scrutiny affected her mental health at the time. However, she confirmed that she has since moved past the ordeal.
Veekee and Femi’s journey to marriage began with their engagement in late 2023. They officially tied the knot on February 10, 2024. The couple recently celebrated their first wedding anniversary.

Toke Makinwa Reignites “Gold Digger” Debate
In related news, Nigerian media personality and fashion influencer, Toke Makinwa, recently sparked a new debate. She controversially declared that men, not women, are the biggest “gold diggers.”
Makinwa shared these remarks on a recent episode of her podcast. There, she analyzed the common stereotype that women marry wealthy men solely for financial gain. The media star passionately criticised how society often uses the term “gold digger” against women. She argued that this accusation ignores a growing trend. More men are now intentionally marrying into affluent families.