Dr Joe Abah, OON, recommends men demonstrate self-control during disagreements with women who’ve borne their children.
His counsel surfaces amidst ongoing marital tensions involving actress Regina Daniels and Senator Ned Nwoko.
Advocating Respect and Restraint
Through a social media post, Dr Abah stressed preserving female dignity during relationship conflicts.
“When conflicts arise with the mother of your children, avoid destructive actions regardless of anger,” he stated.
“Exercise restraint for your children’s wellbeing and personal dignity as a father. I speak with authority.”

Online Community Responses
Netizens shared diverse perspectives on the advice.
Edozie John noted: “Leadership demands sacrifice. Future gratitude comes from dignified conduct, even when blameless.”
Imago Dei reflected: “Restraint proves vital, though destructive impulses tempt during betrayal.”
Mazi Uche emphasized: “True fatherhood extends beyond inaction to active support and loving guidance.”
Halal Finance countered: “Reality complicates ideals. Some women target men’s peace and parental bonds.”
Kalu Samuel Uko concluded: “Respected figures should resolve marital issues privately, avoiding public disputes.”