Popular reality television star, Cynthia Nwadiora, widely recognized as Ceec, has spoken out about how public judgment has negatively affected her. She revealed that many fans often confuse her natural confidence with arrogance.
During a recent conversation, Ceec explained a unique challenge of living in Nigeria. She noted that people here tend to quickly accept negative labels about individuals. They often do so without taking the time to truly know the person involved.
According to the BBNaija star, once someone is branded as “bad” or “arrogant,” many others readily adopt this view. This happens even before meeting the individual in person.
Ceec highlighted how this perception has significantly impacted her brand. She stated that numerous individuals assume she is arrogant, even before any personal interaction. This creates a barrier to genuine connection and understanding.
She further mentioned that anyone who interacts with her face-to-face will quickly see a different side. They will realize her personality differs from the image often portrayed online. This personal experience, she believes, often leads to a change in their initial opinion.
Ceec also shared her efforts to correct these misconceptions. She consistently tries her best to offer people a clearer understanding of who she is during personal encounters. Her goal is for them to leave with a more accurate and positive impression.
“I usually live in Nigeria, where a lot of people follow the bad work,” Ceec explained. “If somebody says, ‘Oh, this person is a bad person,’ people don’t even wait to experience you. They just accept it. They say she’s a bad person.”
She continued, “So people don’t actually get to know you. A lot of people see my confidence as being arrogant.”
However, Ceec firmly believes in the power of personal interaction. “You cannot meet me in person or experience me as a person and go home saying I’m arrogant,” she asserted. “You would definitely have a change of mindset about me.”
She admitted the significant cost of this misperception. “It has cost me a lot,” she stated. “I hear some people say, ‘Oh, that one, she’s just arrogant.’ You don’t even know me, but that’s what you believe.”
“But one thing I’ve tried to do is I make sure that when you meet me, when you give me the grace to get to know me, you will not go home feeling that way,” Ceec concluded, emphasizing her commitment to changing negative narratives through genuine connection.