A young Nigerian woman recently ignited a social media discussion. She boldly stated that “baddies” are currently prospering. In contrast, “good girls” are falling behind. This challenges traditional parental advice.
A viral video posted by @Teniola on X (formerly Twitter) featured her remarks. She emphasized that women who were “sharp and ambitious” from a young age are succeeding. They have overcome obstacles and now excel.

She articulated her perspective:
“We must acknowledge a truth: the ‘baddies’ are winning,” she asserted. “Consider young women who displayed ambition early on. Their lives were not ruined. They are now thriving. They travel widely and make significant progress.”
She expressed surprise that the adage, “good girls don’t get paid,” receives insufficient emphasis.
Ambition Versus Caution: A Clear Contrast
She noted a clear contrast. Ambitious women achieve more than cautious ones. The difference is undeniable.
These assertive women are excelling. They travel internationally. Success follows them, even during holidays like Christmas. Their influence continues to grow.
Her statements rapidly ignited online discussion. One commenter observed, “The era of ‘good girls paying’ is over. Things have changed completely.”
Another user proudly stated, “I avoided the ‘good girl’ path. My achievements are countless.” Others applauded her candor. They felt her views reflected current societal realities.
The accompanying video further illustrates these points, capturing the essence of the viral discussion.