Popular Nigerian media personality, Oladotun Ojuolape Kayode, widely known as Do2dtun, has voiced his opinion on a recent incident. This involved content creator Peller, who crashed his car during a live broadcast. The incident occurred amidst ongoing reports of issues in his relationship with Jarvis.

Do2dtun shared his views on social media. He believes the bond between Peller and Jarvis lacks true emotional connection. Instead, it appears to be fueled by personal interests, a craving for fame, and public approval.

He offered counsel to both parties. Do2dtun advised them to step away from each other. This separation, he suggested, would help them discover themselves as individuals. It would allow them to make personal mistakes and mature. This growth should happen without the constant pressure of public demands.

Do2dtun stated, “A relationship built on interest and validation creates impossible expectations. It pressures you to live beyond your means. You also try to satisfy the desires of strangers. What defines you both beyond the spotlight? Any bond formed to please the public is a ticking time bomb.”

He emphasized their need for individual development. “They both have a long way to go,” he added. “They are at an age to make their mistakes. They should live and develop individually. This is better than doing it through a relationship.”

“They tied their innocence to the expectations they created,” Do2dtun explained. “We amplified an unrealistic expectation. Sadly, happiness diminishes when public demand is high.”

He continued, “If you grow to believe money is the only key to validation or sustaining a relationship, you build your own cage. You will shift from being happy to simply being seen.”

“Any relationship requiring constant togetherness for validation will lose its individualism. It will also lack genuine happiness. It simply becomes a performance. Eventually, one party will feel cheated.”

“Peller and Jarvis are a ticking time bomb,” Do2dtun firmly believes. “Trust me, they need to explore, test new experiences, and live. They must make their mistakes individually. They will eventually discover their true selves and worth.”

He did not rule out a future reconciliation. “They might even realize they should have just been friends. Or they could come together later and build an amazing relationship,” he pondered. “I am not ruling it out, but they need to LIVE! and grow individually for now.”

“They grew too fast, and we encouraged it,” Do2dtun lamented. “Those of you who ‘stan’ them are the real devils. Kids their age often still live under their parents’ roof. There is no justification for his actions. It is also time for him to reevaluate his primary role. I will give him the benefit of the doubt.”

“Many of us were foolish at that age,” he admitted. “We simply had guidance. These kids are already playing adult roles. What else do you expect?”

“Once your children become ‘parents’ or ‘friends’ during their teenage years, you might lose them. No matter their fame or what they offer you, set boundaries on certain things. Fame is fleeting. It needs guidance and control. Even adults struggle with it, let alone young people.”

“Let a child be a child,” Do2dtun urged. “We all did foolish things at their age. The only difference is some lacked the platform to amplify it. Fame and money are dangerous tools. These youngsters might even be the family breadwinners. Who will advise them? Things are often done in reverse. Children need to remain children, even if they are famous.”

“Peller and Jarvis do not have a symbiotic relationship,” he concluded. “One will mature faster than the other and feel constrained. The other might feel undervalued for giving everything, yet unable to control the narrative. It looks cute but is toxic. Without us, the clicks, and our opinions, they might be perfect. Sadly, you are all invested, which is why it won’t work.”